What we can learn from St. Francis

October 4, 2013

Today is the feast of St. Francis of Assisi, a saint I have grown to love in recent days. My devotion to this saint began when I was at a used book store and noticed a small green volume tucked away in the religion section called, “The Little Flowers of St. Francis.” The title really doesn’t do justice to the book, which contains episodes from the life of St. Francis, his words and counsel, and a biography by St. Bonaventure.

After getting to know this saint, I will simply say that the real St. Francis is nothing like the hippy-fied, new age, pantheist that so many portray him to be. He was a man who was born in wealth and privilege, and who once dreamed of glory on the battlefield, but who ended up falling in love with God instead.

What we can learn from him

While there’s a lot I could say about St. Francis, here are few lessons about manhood that he can teach us 21st century men.

1. St. Francis was tough – The modern conception of St. Francis is sentimental and sappy. Yes, St. Francis loved the animals and wrote poetry, but these elements of his personality in no way made him a sissy. He was far tougher than the majority of us will ever be. Here are some of the things he endured in his lifetime:

He experienced frequent and debilitating sickness, but he would never fail to chant the Liturgy of the Hours no matter how sick he was; He suffered from poor eyesight, and the doctors of his day decided that burning his eyes with red hot irons would solve the problem, so they cauterized his eyes; He was often verbally and physically abused by those who thought he was a madman; He would often fast for 40 days at a time in imitation of Christ; He would throw himself in the snow to fight temptation to impurity; He endured freezing conditions in the winter without adequate clothing. The list goes on.

In other words, St. Francis knew how to suffer, and he embraced it in imitation of Christ Our Lord. And in contradiction to modern sensibilities, he was both a preacher and a practitioner of penance. His feats of endurance put most of us to shame.

St. Francis reminds us that there is no sanctity without suffering. When we are faced with trials and painful experiences, we should embrace them joyfully as St. Francis did, uniting them to the sufferings of Christ.

meditation-of-st-francis-16322. St. Francis was compassionate – It is unfortunate that most men don’t think compassion is manly. It most certainly is. True men know how to be tough, but they also know how to be gentle and sympathetic to the suffering of others.

St. Francis felt compassion for everyone, from lepers to birds. He simply recognized that our Father in heaven loves everything he has made, and it only makes sense that we should too. If we have no compassion, it is a sign that we do not truly possesses the love of Christ.

Like St. Francis, let’s show compassion to those we encounter, treating them as if they were Christ himself. Let’s look beyond ourselves and seek to comfort those who are suffering, whether it be physically or emotionally.

3. St. Francis found freedom in poverty – In America, the prevailing philosophy among men is, “Whoever dies with the most toys wins.” Men buy boats, RVs, motorcycles, sports cars, electronic gadgets, and power tools in a quest to have the biggest and best of everything. The problem is, having a garage full of expensive toys doesn’t bring happiness. True happiness is found in God alone. St. Francis knew that, and he embraced radical poverty to prove it.

While most of us can’t renounce all possessions as St. Francis did (it would be foolish for us to do so in most cases), we can still live in such a way that we are not obsessed with material things. St. Francis shows that the key to freedom from materialism is gratitude and praise. We should give thanks for the good things God has given us, using them and enjoying them for what they are, all the while keeping our heart free to love and serve God before anything else.

Get to know the real St. Francis

People are talking about St. Francis more than ever, as our Holy Father has taken his name and is seeking to bring his virtues into the Church. I would encourage you to get to know the real St. Francis and come to understand the true Franciscan spirit. If you don’t know where to start, check out St. Francis of Assisi
by G.K. Chesterton, or The Little Flowers of Saint Francis (Dover Thrift Editions)
I mentioned above. You will find a man who shatters the stereotypes, and who is both surprising and inspiring.

What do you admire most about St. Francis? What is your favorite episode from his life?

Sam Guzman

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  1. elizabeth says

    There is also abiography of St. Francis entitled My God and My All by Elizabeth Goudge. Other than Chesterton , the absolute best biography I’ve read on St. Francis.

  2. mcrognale says

    I prefer the meme of “he who dies with the most toys still dies”. We are the most self centered people on the planet as US citizens. It’s terrible.

  3. Larry Betson says

    I am glad that you painted a more accurate picture of this wonderful Saint.

    Another thing that we can learn from Saint Francis is his true charity for souls by trying to bring them to conversion, which is something as of late that has been getting some press, an not really true. Saint Francis devoted his life to “proselytization”. Should we have “dialogue” yes but that dialogue should lead to conversion. It should lead talks of salvation through Jesus Christ and his true visible Church here on Earth, the Catholic Church.

    The following is a fine example.

    In 1219, Francis went to the Holy Land to preach to the moslems. He was given a pass through the enemy lines, and spoke to the Sultan, Melek-al-Kamil. Francis proclaimed the Gospel to the Sultan, who replied that he had his own beliefs, and that moslems were as firmly convinced of the truth of Islam as Francis was of the truth of Christianity. Francis proposed that a fire be built, and that he and a moslem volunteer would walk side by side into the fire to show whose faith was stronger. The Sultan said he was not sure that a moslem volunteer could be found. Francis then offered to walk into the fire alone. The Sultan who was deeply impressed but remained unconverted.

    • The Catholic Gentleman says

      Exactly, Larry. Francis has been used as an emblem of unprincipled “dialogue” and “ecumenism” that leads nowhere. Far from embracing all religions in some form of amorphous universalism, St. Francis wanted to see all men come to salvation in the Catholic faith. He embraced all men, but not all beliefs.

      His heart burned with zeal for souls, and he preached conversion at all times. We would do well to imitate him in this respect as well! Thank you for that reminder.

  4. MatthewPL says

    Very inspiring. Though I was found of St. Francis for a long time I didn’t know a half of it. Thank you. Also, please consider, talking about how St. Pio suffered. He is my role model, though I also vent through a lot of physicall struggles which are not over yet. Let me just tell you, though St. Francis is very inspiring, it’s not easy to live through suffering with joy and peace. I thought I will be like him though I see I am just a normal man.

  5. Carmen says

    This was very helpful i was able to write a 5 page essay on him and i got and A++ on my book report and i love this website thx you guys are awesome and you deserve awesome things


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